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Prioritizing Your Partner – in design and life



Designing a pretty house is hard. Designing a beautiful house with your partner is harder. Designing a stunning home with two toddlers feels nearly impossible. It’s like a plastic surgeon being asked to pierce a ferrets’s tongue. Sure,  you can do it, but all your real skills are squandered. You see, all that toddlers really want and need can be wrapped up in two words – space and destruction. These are not the words that make a designers heart flip with joy. Nay. And I don’t want to lose Brian’s style in the mix, either.


This whole double toddler thing has not just made designing more difficult, but has also made life, marriage and generally staying awake long enough to chat about how you are really doing more challenging. So when Plum Organics (yes, the pouches and puffs that your babies scream for and suck down) reached out as part of their new campaign that encourages parents to prioritize their relationships (sans guilt!) I thought – well, I do like an excuse to talk about our marriage, Lord knows. Why are they sponsoring a post about relationships? Because they believe that making love is essential to a good partnership – thus their Do your Part(ner) campaign. They are right. And listen, having sex leads to a better marriage, which can lead to making babies and more babies lead to more buying baby food – and they make baby food. Do I think we all should be having more sex with our partners? YES. But time is so hard to find, and patterns are so hard to break. When Brian and I are on a good kick (before I had a recent pregnancy scare – DEAR LORD), our marriage can feel pretty close to perfect .. although, to be clear, making more babies is certainly not part of our “perfect” plan anytime soon.

Listen, we love Plum’s food – I’ve downed a few pouches myself (haven’t we all?) and while I prefer to actually chew solids, my, goodness those pouches do taste good (but not too sweet, don’t worry).

Back to us, our relationship and our home:

So this time around, with our new house, I have three very important clients to consider – let me give you their bios:

Elliot Henderson:


This lady specializes in throwing food, stomping on it, and sometimes scraping it up and eating it if we don’t catch her. She is also adept at shaking her bottle maniacally, like a rattle, near many an upholstered piece of furniture. She does these things with glee and a ridiculous amount of ‘cute’. She also says ‘mama’ like it’s the most important and under-used word ever, with arms outstretched. Her use of the affirmation ‘yah’, with an intense head nod, is unequivocally adorable. Sixteen months is a ridiculously cute age.

Charlie Henderson:


Charlie is particularly good at bringing in dead lizards from the backyard and resting them on the arm of the chair, then not telling us. He also likes taking his shoes full of sand off on the rug, and haplessly rubbing his yogurt-riddled-hands into the velvet sofa (we let our kids eat snacks on the sofa on the weekends because we are lazy and our sofa pays the price). Charlie is also learning he has to ‘clean up every single mess’ which guess what? IS JUST MORE WORK FOR US. That kid should not quit his day job, he’s out-right terrible at putting broom to pan.

**Free parenting tip from my mother (of 6). Have your kids from birth, clean up their messes and fix their mistakes even when, especially when it’s an accident. She said with the last couple of kids she started this protocol and they made WAY less accidental messes and became more careful in general because they knew that they were in charge of cleaning it up.

But he is also saying ‘mama please cuddle me’ pretty often in between the meltdowns. Examples of such meltdowns are these: He’s devastated that a helicopter isn’t flying over our house, or that I made a bristle block laser instead of a rocket. In case you have a friend who has a 3 year old, give her a hug and tell her that she is a good mom. This stage is INTENSE. He loves hard, expresses FULLY and managing his meltdowns should be training for the CIA bomb squad.

Lastly …

Brian Henderson:


This man specializes at being a ridiculously present dad, entertaining best friend and really open and vulnerable human being. He ain’t perfect but, man, whenever I look at the facts I’m absolutely shocked that I landed him. We’ve been together for 16 years, (read all about our ups and downs here) lived together for 14 of them and generally have had the same style – both in home, fashion and parenting. The amount of times we have left the house both in chambray and plaid is too embarrassing and gross to count. What I have said over and over the last 16 years is ‘man, i can’t believe we are always on the same page’. This includes restaurant choices or how we travel (without a plan). We also both “avoid paying bills”, or “hate dealing with paperwork” so ‘being on the same page’ can really be a bummer, legally.


Back to our house …

I took over the design of our home 6 years ago when the blog started taking off, after Design Star. I had all the leverage to kinda do whatever I wanted because that is how we supported us and I barely even asked him his opinion. If he was in earshot of me and my team making decisions I might throw the question out there, hoping he didn’t hear. But generally he had little input – of which I was mostly annoyed by. I found him to be a naysayer, he found me to be bossy. We were both right. (He didn’t really want THAT much input by the way – but probably more than he got).

This was absolutely my mistake. What that did to him was make him feel very little ownership over his home even though he generally liked everything in it – we have similar styles after all. One always wants to be asked, right? So his reaction was to complain a little too much about the things that he didn’t like. And in my mind I was like – I SPENT HOURS AND HOURS MAKING THE VARIETY OF DECISIONS NEEDED TO GET THAT PIECE IN HERE!! I felt that he didn’t want to participate in the process but loved to complain about the close-to-wonderful results.

But this time around things are changing. I’ve learned my lesson and our marriage is in a better place than it has been for years so we are both working at avoiding those mistakes.

Emily Henderson Designing With Brian7

Here is what is happening:

We are not designing the house for toddlers – we are designing it for a family of young kids and we are doing it together. Sure, it will be kid-friendly but not unbreakable. Every day they learn better habits, which make me think maybe they can handle that glass paneled hutch in the dining room…

Emily Henderson Designing With Brian1

I’m enlisting Brian’s help in every step of the process. Sure, I am taking the lead and it would be silly to imply that we are doing it together, 50/50, but I’m treating him like a real VIP client and presenting the best options to him before deciding on the final. He has GREAT ideas and he’s normally right about more functional aspects. He typically bubbles over with common sense and has a really good sense of color and style.

Emily Henderson Designing With Brian14

He wants to be involved … probably not as much as he is. He’s realizing quickly the amount of decision making is absolutely paralyzing and exhausting – and he doesn’t even know the level of coordinating and minutea we are battling on a minute to minute basis.

Involving him has made the design of house both more frustrating at times AND yet more successful. There are times when he’s really done looking at options (I have to book meetings with him on his calendar with Ginny and Mel to get real info out of him). Yet I’m texting him photos from the flea market of potential purchases – something I’ve never done before. He responds with a ‘ooh fun!’ which isn’t typically something he would say. What he is really meaning is ‘I think you want it and it might be cool but mostly I am trying to be into this because I know it’s important for our marriage that I participate in the process and not just complain about the result’. I buy it, obviously, psyched that he just OK’d me to buy 7′ garden bird statues for our courtyard. He’s right, they are ‘ooh fun’.

Emily Henderson Designing With Brian6

Prioritizing him into the design of the house was crucial to our marriage. And us prioritizing our kids thoughtfully and yet not obsessively into the design of our home is best for our family. We make time for each other, but for the first time I’m grateful for his opinions, feel relief in his input and am enjoying the process even more than the result. When we got married we promised we would be each others first priority, then when we had kids that shifted – not because they are more important but because they are so, so, so needy. My parents, for 45 years and 6 kids ALWAYS had a date night once a week. They have such a strong marriage because they know that if they don’t, the whole family suffers. Prioritize your relationship, ESPECIALLY when you have kids. Your partner (my husband) needs our attention, I promise.

Emily Henderson Designing With Brian8

That’s us. The Hendersons are great, but not perfect. Our relationship is so easy and effortless and yet a lot of hard work to maintain its original health. Making time for him actually makes me less stressed. And right about now, designing our house, I’m looking for less stress, more doing.

Thanks to Plum for giving an excuse to write this post, and a reminder to prioritize that man – both in the design of our home and in life by taking the pledge to Do Your Part(ner). Remember that Plum is a brand by parents, for parents. They have been keeping it real for years now with their ongoing #ParentingUnfiltered conversation, which encourages people to share ALL the complex realities of parenting (the good, the bad and the smelly). 

What about you? Are you totally in charge of the design? Are you making time for your partner? Do you let him or her weigh in on all decisions or is he the leader of the design decisions? Or are you both too busy with littles to even think about switching out a lampshade?

*This post is in partnership with Plum Organics – a company that we love. But all words/ideas and feelings are my own. Thanks for supporting the brands that keep the makeovers coming.

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I think this is always important to remember. Before my fiancee and I were together I was definitely a “my house my way” kind of girl. But it’s his home, too, he deserves to love it and be as comfortable in it as I am, so he should have a say in what goes into it. He appreciates that and there are times where he’s like “totes don’t care about pillows” and that’s fine, but there are other times where he will say “I’m not about that bedspread, how about another one” and I respect that.

Jenn B.

I LOVED the bio’s, hysterically real! 🙂

Karen T.

I loved this post–such a great reminder (as my husband and I attempt to update/refresh our new home’s dated interior!) And those black leggings–YOWZA! Love!


Ugh… Involving my partner (who I love unconditionally) in home design / decor choices is exhausting. He doesn’t want to be involved and says he doesn’t have the time, yet he hates everything when he’s not involved. He also hates a lot of things I like: stripes, floral, most colors, also most neutrals, abstract art, faux fur… It doesn’t help that our budget is tiny, so any mistakes hurt all the more. Further, he grew up in a house where almost all of the things were cheap and thus he never learned to treat things carefully. So, even if I… Read more »

This is really awesome and sound advice! I always make sure to ask my husband if he is okay with something in the house before it becomes permanent, because he has to stare at it everyday too! Luckily we haven’t butted heads too much in this department.



Great post with lots of great points! My very practical husband isn’t really interested in the details of design choices. He is a minimalist and doesn’t really need much ‘stuff’. Our issue is the spending of the money. We have 2 young kids in full time daycare ($$$) and the designer in me is always wanting to change and improve (more $$$)! Our biggest issues have been centered around the budget. I think the solution is we just need more of it. lol!


Oh, I hear you. My very practical husband loves the oak furniture that he refinished 25 years ago because it’s durable …. and I have more Emily’s light, happy, California style. And he sees no reason to spend money on design choices. That’s why we still don’t have a coffee table and golden 80s wallpaper in our guest room. Two kids in school here and living in the very expensive SF Bay Area … I have so many ideas and try to make design choices in a budget conscious way, but then he says he does not “want cheap crap”.… Read more »


I can so relate. Especially since I have a three-year-old Charlie, too. My husband hit the nail on the head with him, saying, “he’s just the best when he’s not the worst.” Ha. Our first design decisions were disastrous, so glad we have learned to compromise (him to form, me to function) and communicate better.

PS you are the queen of writing sponsored posts that are meaningful and relevant to both brands. Kudos!


After “The Great Soap Dispenser Incident of 2011,” we pretty much decide on all home-related choices together. In our last place, we each ended up taking the lead in different spaces of the house. He designed the living/dining room, I designed the bedroom and kitchen. The person with more ideas ends up naturally taking the lead, and the other person has veto power. We both really enjoy the process and have similar ideas about budget, style, etc. so it works really well.


LOL! It’s funny how things like sop dispensers that are technically not that serious can become the most important decision in the history of humankind. Years ago I was so excited to get a new soap dispenser. Not two days later our toddler used it and accidentally tipped it over. It broke into many sharp pieces and scared her to death. Obviously her safety was more concerning than loosing the dispenser, but at the time I was so disappointed! Anyway, after twenty plus years my husband has realized I have pretty good taste and work hard to find the best… Read more »


Um…you are amazing.

“It’s like a plastic surgeon being asked to pierce a ferrets’s tongue.”

That’s the weirdest, best metaphor yet.


Yes! The ferret comment CRACKED me up – but it made so much sense (about using your skills in the most effective way possible)!


Great post! I love reading about juggling this career in real life. Your desires are really awesome in this area. Thanks for the reminder!

Emily K

I struggle with this. In theory I think it’s the right way. But the house was purchased solely by me. And we aren’t married. So like technically it is MY HOUSE… I do involve him in decisions regarding expensive items and things not easily changed like tile. I narrow it down to some options then get his opinion. So far there’s been no complaints. And I did let him put a tv in our bedroom which I hate.


Great post, Emily! And great, hilarious descriptions of your adorable kids. I am of the mind that decisions shouldn’t be made unilaterally, but that the person who cares a lot more should have more of a say. Getting a husband’s input (or letting him make the final choice) on something he doesn’t even really care about at all is kind of pointless. For instance if you asked my husband right now what color our living room walls are painted, he would not be able to tell you. Even if given a multiple-choice test. Whereas I care deeply, so I should… Read more »


I was cracking up while tearily reading. Loved the descriptions of each family member! Great post.

We are in the same situation as you and Brian used to be. I am definitely more design-oriented (I started a clothing company as a side hustle, and have been very interested in how I design my spaces since I was a kid. When we bought our first home together, I started a home and food blog ( and have used the blog as an excuse to take over design control, much to my husband’s chagrin. And, like Brian, my husband has good taste and has provided good design advice for my clothing line and our homes together. The… Read more »


Thanks for another excellent post which really made me chuckle.

My controlling and abusive ex-husband went ballistic if I so much as moved a picture without his permission (although he took no interest in interiors).

I’m pleased to say that for the last 12 years it’s been my choice only. Of course I do ask for other people’s opinion (especially my family) but in the end it’s down to me – which is great – but you do have to own your mistakes .


My mom’s controlling and emotionally abusive ex-husband (my former step dad) was the same way with decor…. he would throw rages and fume for days on end over design decisions/purchases/minute tweaks, despite having no interest in interiors. So glad she got out of that hell-hole, and you too!


Thanks Kim! And pleased to hear your Mum has escaped too.


my husband is super involved in our decorating purchases. it drives me nuts sometimes, but generally we make our decisions together. Fortunately it’s only him & myself, and we have very similar taste! he took 2 years of searching before he found the perfect media cabinet for our living room. and i agreed with him.

I really enjoyed this post! And now I like Plum Organics more because I didn’t realize they did all of these cool parent-centered campaigns. I see their stuff at the grocery store but now I might actually buy it for my 10 month old twins. I see that as a partnership done right. My main job is in marketing so I just wanted to applaud this effort on both sides. #nicelydone My husband and I sometimes butt heads over the house, which is a mutual passion of ours. I’m fortunate that his passion is related to building and constructing and… Read more »


Jordan, My jaw was dropping with (friendly) envy about how your husband loves building and constructing… and HE was pestering you to choose a stone for the wall, which he was pumped to build. AMAZING!! I LOVE my husband, but I have realized solidly that, contrary to my hopes, building, constructing, home renovating, or even painting is nothing he is interested in. If we had a garden wall to build, we may have a 10-minute conversation about how it would be cool to do it ourselves and not hire someone. Then two weeks later, I’d mention it again, and he’d… Read more »


So good.

Thank you Emily. You’re right and that was a very appreciated post and so so true. The moment I started prioritising my partner at the absolute top of the list everything became easier and I’m so proud to be in a strong and healthy relationship, just so because we work at it. Thank you for that post. It is valuable.


I’m 76 and living with way too much stuff from his side of the family and stuff my sons don’t want to get rid of so here it resides. But I grew up in orphanages and had no clue how to be a Homemaker. I was married at 19 to a 21 year old Chemical Engineer so I went from nothing(worked as a Nanny in a wealthy home) to having an income. I wanted so desperately to fit in and look competent that I talked my Husband into buying used French Provincial furniture that was a disaster with the Babies… Read more »


I love seeing these posts with the kids rolling all over each other and the house a mess (but still gorgeous! gotta love good bones). Its so awesome! I have three boys and those messy tumbling days are my reality. My husband and I have been together since we were teenagers. Its fun, complicated and endearing all at the same time. Mostly we just look at each other in these messy crazy days and wonder how in the world we got here. This post is fun, real and messy. Just like life with a growing family. Its the best. Thanks… Read more »

This post made me happy and I can totally relate with a two-year old who suddenly has lots of opinions and likes to eat mysterious food off the floor (when the hell did we have raisins last??) I love your personal posts – keep them coming, please!! One of my “themes” for 2017 is to make more time for my husband so this is timely and you really hit the nail on the head. It’s so easy to drift into parent mode because it demands soooo much of your attention so we have to make a deliberate effort to have… Read more »


What a sweet post! And great reminder to communicate, even when we’re probably in agreement over something- say it out loud.


I love this post. It’s so honest and real. I love the reminder that marriage takes work, but that it’s so worth it. Learning to decorate together was a challenge for us – I didn’t expect my husband to care, but he does. After a learning curve, we’re on the same page, style-wise, and it makes things so much easier.


Thank you for being so open! This is so huge. I watch design clients do this all the time, and it gets into power balance, money, cleanliness, aesthetics… crazy hard. My own turning point came when I was buying my first apartment. My husband (then bf) kept defaulting to me, but I could just feel the swallowed opinions. He felt uncomfortable ‘butting in’ because we weren’t engaged yet, and it was mostly my money. But I wanted to design our home, not mine. I had a meltdown organizing our ‘shoe-seum’ shelving by the front door (I liked mixing by color;… Read more »


Awesome post. I am engaged (married in just a couple months!) and while I am making most of the wedding plans and my fiance is fine with it, we recently butted heads over the invitations I designed. I was horrified. I am a professional Graphic Designer with impeccable taste!! We were able to work through some issues and for me to see that he is allowed to have input as it is OUR wedding even though I know what looks good. It has taken me a while to understand that while he may not have opinions about flowers, he may… Read more »


My husband is pretty open to what I want but I ask him anyway be cause he thinks of practical reasons for or against that I sometimes miss. Also about the kids being bad at brooms and such. I got a dirt devil a few months ago and my 4 and 2 year old boys think it is the funnest thing to clean up crumbs and dirt. It’s a win/win!!

We’ve had kiddos most of our marriage, so the design has always involved, well … everyone! I’ve ended up going “big” on original art … b/c it creates an inspiring space for the kids and you can do less expensive, or simple furniture, that can be cleaned, stand up to wear and tear, etc, b/c everyone is so in love with your art. Just a thought. 🙂


Hmmm, If I were married to “The Design Star” winner, I’d happily turn over the keys. I was at a meeting once and ran into the husband sitting outside in the cold. He explained that his wife wouldn’t let him sit on the white sofas. Sure enough, they were divorced soon after. In my perfect world, I would make all design decisions. I am better at it and it matters to me waay more. That said, out of respect for my partner, I will never load up on pillows on the bed, I will always have a coffee table you… Read more »


Thanks Emily for a great post. I always try to take into consideration that I am not the only one living in our space. We recently built a new house and I am still in the process of getting new furniture and décor. We have combined pieces from both of us and some just don’t work in our new house, which he is finally admitting to and willing to let go. He pretty much let me run with lighting, tile and plumbing decisions but I did ask his opinion on some key decisions. Luckily he has been nothing but happy… Read more »

Jocelyn Pascall

This post really spoke to me, especially about how to decorate with toddlers in the house. We have a two year old, and destruction truly is the name of the game. With that said, I refuse to live in a space that makes me feel unhappy and depressed because all of the ‘me’ has been stripped out of it in the name of child-proofing. Don’t get me wrong, we have made many adjustments, and the white couch I see in my dreams will have to wait, but I also think it’s okay to raise kids in an environment where not… Read more »


White slipcovered couches are amazing even with kids/pets. Wash the cushions once a month and the rest every couple of months. Yeah, it gets dirty in between but your normal couch is that dirty too and bleach/oxyclean fixes anything!

Jocelyn Pascall

Good point!!! Now you’ve got me thinking…


Wonderful and hilarious post, Emily. My partner and I have pretty different styles and we mesh them together. Initiative is what reigns supreme. If he or I do something, the other happily accepts it because it’s one less thing to do. This creates a him, me, him, me pattern to decorating, leading to the meshed style. We consult for big purchases, but haven’t had many yet. We haven’t even had walls we could paint yet, but when we do, that will surely require compromise.

Jennifer Owen

My trick for keeping the couch free from spills is to wrap the single couch cushion in a quilted throw secured with those clips that secure toddlers mittens to coats. When there’s a spill or (vomit!) I can just launder the throw. Added bonus the throw adds more texture and color to the room.
Also totally identify with your situation. To a lesser extent, and ten years on…

Jill P

Love your posts, Emily! Loved you on both shows as well!! So sweet to include Brian in the design. BTW, those panels/walls in the store photo of you & Brian sitting on the white sofa? OMG!!! Love that!! I want this in my home today!!!!!!!!!


This all sounds so familiar! Designer here…2 kids, ages 4.5 and 1.5. Husband who is not quite as stylistically similar to me as yours is to you. I’m so very grateful he is so accommodating. And I try to get his input, and feel like I am always designing with him as a “client” in mind, but usually I just hope he doesn’t notice when I sneakily replace our dining chairs for the third time because I just can’t make up my mind and rearrange our sons bedrooms every couple months while he’s at work…let me tell you though. Every… Read more »

This is great, That’s a great website, it really is what I was looking for, thank you for sharing!


Love. About to start building a house together. This was so timely! Thank you!

Nicole J

Your post couldn’t be more timely! Moving this weekend and mentioned to my bf (father of our 2 year old) that I bought a new Bath mat & he was so genuinely hurt…he said “this isn’t just your home.” Quite the wakeup call that even the little decisions need everyone’s input so they feel valued. Thanks for always sharing great “jewels”


Am I the only one completely repulsed by the non-recyclable packaging of Plum products? I know their lighter weight gives rise to their claim of being an “eco-alternative,” but that is a whole lot of petroleum-based product that’s not going anywhere. I would think people who procreate should care *more* about this issue.


There’s probably always *some* additional step a person could take to be more eco-friendly. For example, vowing to never eat at a restaurant or buy anything from a store, and instead, create the items at your own place of residence, baked from your own produce or sewn from your own sheep you raise. Perhaps some people draw their “line” (such as, “I try to take short showers to conserve water, but I am willing to eat pouches of food”) differently than others.

In other words, maybe they care to an extent…


To achieve what we want and to do what we want in life, we choose to rely heavily and trust each other. To each singularly handle tasks so we can come together on what we want. A) one of us will have the stronger skill set in the area of the task and that person simply does it. (Obviously once you have conceded/ delegated you let go, neither one of us would complain to the other after we have taken the task off our plate. I used to do this, however we made a simple rule of it, and it… Read more »

This is definitely something the boyfriend and I are learning. We’re only three months in to our very first apartment together and he has opinions on things I NEVER THOUGHT HE WOULD. So it’s been interesting to say the least, but also really fun too.


What perfect timing for this post. My partner and I just applied for an apartment (our first together) last night and spent most of the evening talking about how we might decorate it. I’m realizing that my word is not final and that he is/will be just as invested in making our space special. Remembering that throughout this process is going to be really important.


Love this post. Love the “everyday” photos of you guys that aren’t professionally edited. Love your love and your advice – and your mom’s advice – but boy is that tough… letting a child clean up a mess takes forrrrr-ev-errrrr. Also date night once a week? Howww? I have kids the same ages as yours + a 5 year old and it’s harrrrd. Coffee and wine make it better. Thanks for the great post.


God I love your blog. Typically I hate the sponsored posts where the bloggers lose their ‘voice’ in an attempt to shoehorn the product into the post. But yours are always so thoughtful and still ‘you.’ This one especially spoke to me as I also have two toddlers under 5 and the husband and I have had ups and down in our relationship (of 15 years!) that seem to mirror yours. I needed this reminder right now so thanks for sharing it in such a beautiful way!

Yup, yup, yup – love this post, and the advice to stay focused on your partner. When my husband and I started decorating our first home together, I was surprised at how invested he was in the decisions. Our design process involved a spreadsheet keeping track of potential furniture pieces and a lot of compromise. In the end, I’m so proud of how we worked together on it and I think we got to a better result by including both of our input. Plus to your point, I think it’s so important that our space really feels like home to… Read more »

I feel oh so fortunate that my husband is color blind…. it knocks out 50% of what I’d have to involve him in! LOL! We just moved 6 months ago and I have a similar approach- I will pick out my top 3 choices and then let him discuss those with me. He doesn’t need to see the whole big world of choices I obsess over first. 🙂


LOL! 😀

Working on including my partner more. It used to just be me picking things I wanted and then later he would tell me he hated it. Since he’s doing a lot of the labor in our new house, he’s gotten to make a lot more decisions and I’ve been pleasantly surprised. Since I was stuck in bed with our newborn, he went and picked the paint colors for our bedrooms and I LOVE them. Thanks to that fun discovery, I feel a little more comfortable not having to make all the decisions and he loves getting to make our house… Read more »


Grateful for this post!
This may be very personal – but if you are vaguely considering having another child at some point, do bear in mind that this might not happen at all, if you are very set on the TIMING of it… It’s a big thing – worth a thought…
Thank you for your blog!


I don’t know how late to the party I am, but I love this entry. We went to a marriage conference early where the speaker said to let the wife’s domain be the home and its decor. May sound old fashioned but it has served us well as out taste is really different…..yet he tends to love my end results. We have had some rough patches on two fronts: a. Remodeling. Sigh. We have have come a long way, but it has been painful coming to terms with our lack of communication while working on the house. and b. I… Read more »

Julie P

What do you do when you have a dear and sweet husband who doesn’t want to let you do what you want, but as an engineer is completely design-deaf?

Hey… I totally relate to this! I’m an interior designer.. currently designing our home… so hubby and me found an awesome way to work together… especially on the furniture. I tend to be more visual while selecting a piece.. he’s more practical. So every time I liked a piece, I’d point it out to him. And he’d go sit on it to see if it’s actually comfortable. It was really funny.. but worked well. We have great looking, comfortable furniture! 🙂

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